Sunday, April 03, 2011
The Business of Relationships
An homage to life's little complexities...
It has been almost two years since I (hand over mouth in the style of Charlie Runkle while saying this) "blawwggged", but no time like the now to have a rebirth of inspiration. I feel I can say I have had the blessing of being able to experience the widths and breadths of what life has to offer. The highest of the highs and lowest of the lows. The best of times were had. Sadly, the truth in the statement that nothing lasts forever can be a hard pill to swallow. I guess that is when one is given the opportunity to make a decision: Keep on keepin' on... or not.
Gratefully, like Joe Dirt (pronounced deer-tay), I am and always have been the former rather than the latter. I have also always been a fan of quotes and songs that offer inspirational messages. Anything that seems to have been a collection of someone's experience of whatever it may have been in life and then pithily synopses-ed, if you will, for others to take and put in the back pocket for whenever they may go through a similar experience. Rainy day? How 'bout Eddie Rabbit's "I Love a Rainy Night"! Tough decision to make? How 'bout the always popular "Two paths diverged in a wood..."! Having trouble with your outlook on things? How 'bout my personal creation of "Being overly optimistic blinds one to the reality of things. Being overly pessimistic blinds one to the hopefulness of things. Therefore I say strive for pessimistic optimism...a.k.a. cautious hopefulness." Black fly in your chardonnay? As she told us, "Isn't it ironic?"
"A few more!", you say? I thought you'd never ask! For the sake of keeping your attention, I'll insert them at the end so you can read them at your leisure. There's a million of them out there and they cover any and every subject. If used correctly, I believe they are little gems that are scattered out there for us to Hansel-and-Gretel-esquely pick up on our journey through this thing called life.
I say all this to preface the following thought. I am seriously considering bringing to life a concept for a book that came to me in days past. Premise: That if people took the morally bankrupt ways of their personal lives and attempted to use them in the professional world, the unemployment line would be significantly longer. On the flip-side, maybe if people took the skills necessary to succeed in the business world and implemented them in their personal lives, maybe just maybe, the world would be a little better place. Just a thought...tentatively titled "The Business of Relationships".
Quotes for those who enjoy quotes:
"Love means exposing yourself to the pain of being deeply hurt....and it will be by someone you love."
"This too, soon shall pass."
"You are undertaking the first experience, not of the place, but of yourself in that place. It is an experience of essential loneliness, for nobody can discover the world for anybody else. It is only after we have discovered the world for ourselves that it becomes a common ground and bond, and we cease to be alone."
"Don't allow yourself to be a result of the past, rather, be a cause of the future."
..."Two paths diverged in a wood, and I took the one less traveled and that has made all the difference."
"All the time ya spend tryin' to get back what's been took from ya, more is goin' out the door."
"You never know how many miles you'll have to run while chasing your dreams."
"The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done! Now if you know what you're worth then go out and get what you're worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain't you!" -Rocky Balboa
"God grant me the the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
Thursday, March 05, 2009
Are You A "Non-Contributing Zero?!"
Wednesday, March 04, 2009
My Diverse Playlist
Have you seen the movie High Fidelity with John Cusak and Jack Black? It is one of my top 5's. I love it. Actually, I think it may have been responsible for my realization that I am more of a top 5 person than someone who can name one favorite anything. The song "I Believe (When I Fall In Love It Will Be Forever)" by Stevie Wonder has been in my head lately. Like most things with me, I cannot explain the reason for this, but it inspired me to take advantage of my blog and post my musical playlist.
Monday, February 16, 2009
Catastrophes and Recessions and Spending...OH MY!
- $6 billion to turn federal buildings into "green" buildings
- $100 million for reducing the hazard of lead-based paint
- $150 million for Smithsonian museum facilities
- $500 million for state and local fire stations
- $1.2 billion for "youth activities", including youth summer jobs
- $10 million to inspect canals in urban areas
- $500 million for flood reduction projects on the Mississippi River
- $25 million for tribal alcohol and substance abuse reduction
- $75 million for "smoking cessation activities" (I thought the quadrillion dollar lawsuit against cigarette manufacturers was supposed to pay for this?)
- $30 million for wetlands conservation, including protection of the salt water harvest mouse (I'm not kidding)
- $1.4 billion for rural waste disposal programs
- $600 million to buy hybrid vehicles for federal employees
- $448 million for construction of the Dept. of Homeland Security headquarters
- $248 million for furniture at the new Homeland Security headquarters
- $88 million for the Coast Guard to design a new polar icebreaker ship (I thought global warming was taking care of all polar ice?)
- $1 billion for Amtrak, which hasn't earned a profit in four decades
- $2 billion earmark to restart FutureGen, a near-zero emissions coal power plant in Illinois that the Dept. of Energy defunded last year because the project was inefficient
- $20 billion over 5 years for an expanded food stamp program
- $53.4 billion for science facilities, high-speed internet, and miscellaneous energy and environmental programs (yes, that's 'billions' for internet)
- $400 million for research into global warming
Q. What is an Economic Stimulus Payment?
A. It is money that the federal government will send to taxpayers.
Q. Where will the government get this money?
A. From taxpayers.
Q. So the government is giving me back my own money?
A. Only a smidgen.
Q. What is the purpose of this payment?
A. The plan is that you will use the money to purchase a high-definition TV set, thus stimulating the economy.
Q. But isn't that stimulating the economy of
A. Shut up.
Below is some helpful advice on how to best help the
Instead, you can keep the money in America by spending it at yard sales, going to a baseball game, or spending it on prostitutes, beer and wine (domestic ONLY), or tattoos, since those are the only American businesses still operating in the US.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Friday, February 06, 2009
What's in a Resolution?
Usually by now the New Year's celebrations are just a memory and not much evidence remains of it's happenings, unfortunately this tends to include those once hopeful and optimistically made New Year's Resolutions.
- "Only 8% of people are always successful in achieving their resolutions. 19% achieve their resolutions every other year. 49% have infrequent success. 24%(one in four people) NEVER succeed and have failed on every resolution every year. That means that 3 out of 4 people almost never succeed."
While the diversity of resolutions range from bettering work habits to smoking cessation to dieting goals, they all usually share a common vision: improving the quality of one's life. The first step in any of these is being able to recognize WHAT it is you want to improve upon. As someone with a strong passion for health and fitness, I would like to address related resolutions.
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Womanizer? Excerciser? Sanitizer? Energizer?!
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Scare Tactic or Ignorance?
Monday, February 02, 2009
What sparked the rereading of "The Greatest Salesman in the World"
Saturday, January 31, 2009
My Fitness Investment
In my yesteryears, I was something of an amateur athlete in the world of triathlon, adventure racing, and half marathons. I have some of the fondest of memories of these days. The comradery among athletes is unlike any I have ever experienced and is reason enough itself to be a part of the racing community. Other memories include: my first 5K at the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure in 2003 and the excitement that came when I unexpectedly saw my name in the local paper for finishing in the top 50; running my first half marathon and making every rookie mistake from buying new shoes and saving them for race day to wearing WAY too many articles of clothing and having to shed gear after the first mile; setting a PR (personal record) in the Hogeye Half Marathon '04 of 1:39:47...enough for a 3rd place age group finish and 17th place overall; hyperventilating and thinking I was going to die during the swim portion of my first triathlon at the Memphis in May tri of '05; the exhileration in crossing the finish line 22 and some odd hours after starting a "24 hour" adventure race in Missouri; the trails, the views, the battle wounds, the searches for a checkpoint marker via map and compass with a headlamp in the black of night, the challenging 'mystery events' from jumping bales of hay to ziplining across a river to rappelling off of a 10+ story building, the godawful time we had to canoe upstream and into the wind during an 8 mile canoe section of an urban adventure race (it didn't help that I despise the wind); getting up at 2:00am and spending race day morning with my grandpa in Chicago before the Chicago Triathlon '05...I could go on and on.
I once came across a quote about running taken from the last published column written by Dr. George Sheehan who wrote for Runner's World for more than 25 years...
- "We know the effects of training are temporary. I cannot put fitness in the bank. If inactive, I will detrain in even less time than it took me to get in shape. And since my entire persona is influenced by my running program, I must constantly be in training. Otherwise, the sedentary life will inexorably reduce my mental and emotional well-being. So, I run each day to preserve the self I attained the day before. And couple with this is the desire to secure the self yet to be. There can be no letup. If I do not run, I will eventually lose all I have gained-and my future with it."